Sexual Harassment

Before you take the ticket:

If you have experienced sexual harassment and you think you might struggle to stay objective, then let someone else handle it.

Sexual harassment is a serious allegation; you must remain objective and detailed in your handling of the situation.

You must have clear proof of sexual harassment before you take any disciplinary actions.

Determine if the harassment is in city or out of city harassment.

Additional considerations for sexual harassment:

  • These tickets often require immediate action to protect victims

  • Document everything thoroughly - screenshots, logs, witness statements

  • Consider temporary separations while investigating

  • Be prepared for potential law enforcement involvement in extreme cases

  • Maintain strict confidentiality during investigation


General Definition

Sexual harassment is unwanted sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, or other verbal/physical conduct of a sexual nature that creates a hostile environment, interferes with someone's participation in the community, or is used as a condition of participation.

ERP is not specifically against the rules but is strongly discouraged on the grounds that it is creepy and cringy.


In-City/Server Sexual Harassment vs Out-of-City Sexual Harassment

In-City/Server Sexual Harassment

This occurs within the roleplay environment and involves:

  • Persistent unwanted sexual advances after being told to stop IC and/or OOC

  • Sexual content involving minors (characters under 18) - ZERO TOLERANCE

  • Forcing sexual scenarios on unwilling participants without consent

  • Using sexual roleplay to specifically target and harass players OOC

  • Graphic sexual content

  • Sexual content with players under 18 regardless of character age

  • Continuing sexual RP after someone has expressed OOC discomfort

  • Retaliating against players who refuse sexual roleplay

Important Distinctions:

  • Consensual adult roleplay between willing participants is generally fine. It's cringy, but not harassment.

  • Criminal RP that references sexual crimes may be acceptable if handled maturely and with consent

  • Flirting or romantic RP is not harassment unless it becomes persistent after rejection

Out-of-City Sexual Harassment

This occurs outside the roleplay environment (Discord, DMs, other platforms):

  • Unsolicited sexual messages or images in DMs or Discord

  • Requesting personal sexual information or photos

  • Making sexual comments about players in OOC channels

  • Sharing sexual content of other community members

  • Pressuring players for sexual content or meetups

  • Creating sexual memes/content targeting specific community members

  • Sexual comments based on voice, gender, or perceived identity


Immediate Action Requirements

Zero Tolerance Situations (Immediate Removal):

  • Any sexual content involving minors

  • Sexual content with players under 18

  • Explicit sexual images/videos shared without consent

  • Real-world sexual threats or stalking

Investigation Required:

  • Disputed consent in sexual roleplay scenarios

  • Claims of continued advances after rejection

  • Sexual content in inappropriate channels/areas


Key Moderation Principles

  1. Victim Safety First: Protect the victim immediately, investigate thoroughly later

  2. Age Verification: Confirm ages of all involved parties immediately

  3. Consent Documentation: Look for clear evidence of consent or lack thereof

  4. Zero Tolerance for Minors: Any sexual content involving under-18s is an immediate permanent ban

  5. Professional Handling: Maintain clinical, professional language in all communications

When to escalate to Senior Staff

Critical Reminder: Sexual harassment allegations require the highest level of professionalism and thoroughness. When in doubt, escalate to senior staff immediately. The safety of community members, especially minors, is the absolute top priority.

If you believe that law enforcement needs to be contacted please escalate immediately.

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